Moulana’s Message

  • On Helping the Poor | By Nabi Raza Abidi

    Posted on January 14, 2018 Under
    charity poor nabi raza abidi

    Putting money in the charity box does not lift people out of poverty, we will be asked on the Day of Judgment on how we spent our wealth. By Nabi Raza Abidi Part of the...

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  • Do you want to be right or do you want to have a relationship?

    Posted on December 23, 2017 Under
    being right in marriage

    Winning an argument does not solve your problems in marriage, it often creates resentment. By Nabi Raza Abidi Do you want to be right or do you want to have a...

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  • The Dangers of Taking Gender Mixing (Ikhtilāṭ) Lightly

    Posted on December 16, 2017 Under
    ikhtilat

    Risky gender mixing (ikhtilāṭ) is the doorway to most sexual sins, prevention is  better than the cure. By Nabi Raza Abidi The Qu’ran says that the purpose of our...

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  • When Intimacy After Kids Goes Downhill and What To Do About It

    Posted on November 18, 2017 Under
    parenting marriage and islam

    Kids are draining and if we don’t handle the situation the right way the first thing to suffer will be the intimacy in your marriage. By Maulana Nabi Raza Abidi After...

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  • Fixing Your Marriage is like a Bumper Car, Not a Train

    Posted on November 12, 2017 Under
    bumper car

    People fail to fix their marriages because they are perfectionists. Martial reform happens incrementally with lots of bumps on the road. By Nabi Raza Abidi Success in...

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  • Change Begins With Our Own Thoughts

    Posted on October 30, 2017 Under
    thoughts

    The quality of our lives depends on our thoughts, by changing our thoughts we change the world around us. By Nabi Raza Abidi Modern discourse often trivializes the link...

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  • What You Value the Most is What Makes You Suffer the Most

    Posted on October 7, 2017 Under
    Friday Prayer Clips
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    Suffering is a mental reaction towards what you value in life. What you value the most is what makes you suffer the most. There are certain kinds of suffering that you can...

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  • How to “Time-Travel” and Change Your Marriage’s Past

    Posted on October 1, 2017 Under
    There is a way to go back and change the past, but it's not how you think.

    Words are not objective, they are expressions of inner emotional states and so is how you view your marriage history. By Nabi Raza Abidi Much of your spouse's outlook on...

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  • Tips on How to Avoid Improper Relations with Opposite Members of the Gender at Work

    Posted on September 24, 2017 Under
    Unfaithful at work

    As members of the opposite gender interact more, incidences of adultery and unfaithfulness have skyrocketed. Here are some thoughts on how to avoid the problem. By Nabi Raza...

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  • Why Do We Fear? By Nabi Raza Abidi

    Posted on September 17, 2017 Under
    lost nabi raza abidi

    I've been recently thinking a lot about the psychology of fear and fearlessness. What is it that makes a person fearless? Fearing God is a good answer, but I feel that it is...

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  • The Only Way You Can Truly Fix Your Marriage

    Posted on September 10, 2017 Under
    marriage fix problems

    To fix your marriage, you must first begin with fixing yourself. By becoming a noble, compassionate and composed human being, you will be able to influence your spouse into...

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  • Approaching Troubles with a Peaceful Heart

    Posted on August 28, 2017 Under
    anger in Islam

    By approaching life’s challenges with a peaceful heart, we nurture the value of patience and thereby approach the ideal of the joyful soul. By Nabi Raza Abidi Not a day...

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